Showing posts with label stories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stories. Show all posts

Monday, June 06, 2011

The DongXi (东西 dōngxi) Shop


All over China there are these amazing shops that I like to call DōngXi (东西) Shops. DōngXi literally means "east and west" and basically means "thing"—and that's exactly what these shops are full of—things. From socks, to pots, to snacks, to tools, to floor mats, to phone cards—these shops have it all. If there is ever some random thing that I need, I immediately head to the DōngXi Shop that is just outside the apartment complex I live in. Generally speaking, the people who own these shops have created the shop out of their personal living space, leaving them a small room behind or above the shop as their actual living area.

Now don't get confused. As many of you who know me well know, I like to make up words and make up meanings for words. I have begun to do this in C-Land as well, coining the phrase DōngXi Shop. I have no idea what these little shops are actually called, or if they even have a name, but it makes my heart happy to know that there are a handful of people walking around Shanghai referring to them as DōngXi Shops.

The second most amazing thing about these shops (behind the sheer variety of items it supplies), is the quantity of the variety it supplies. In a very small footprint the owners create aisles barely large enough for one person, and proceed to stack items on shelves to the ceilings. Things poor off the shelves, and out the front door of the shops as the sidewalk becomes fair game for extending your shop space (also fair game for expanding your apartment space, restaurant space, etc). At night, after the shop has closed, I can only imagine how much more crammed the inside is as it struggles to hold not only what was already in the shop, but everything that once resided on the sidewalk as well.

These shops are one of the closest things I've found to garage sales in C-Land in that you just never know what you may find in them—and in that what you find is usually pretty cheap.

The DongXi Shops are also especially useful to the crafty mind. I never cease to confuse the shop owners as I evaluate the use of wire mesh for displaying photographs, or piping to act as a flagpole or to be made into mini hurdles.

To me, these shops are one of the jewels of C-land and always the first place I recommend looking when a friend says "Do you know where I could get a _________?"

Below: The aisles of the local DongXi Shop across the street from my apartment. I still haven't had a chance to truly discover everything it sells.


Tuesday, September 08, 2009

Elbow to Lip Style: The Unfortunate Incident of Hospital Trip Number 3

I had made it through my entire life without breaking, dislocating, or needing to stitch up anything.
And then I moved to C-Land...

This story begins on a bright sunny afternoon. The summer temperature was cool for Shanghai. The type of weather that is perfect for getting a group of people together to play a lively game of Ultimate Frisbee. So, that is of course, what we did:

The frisbee was thrown high in the sky. It was sailing... it's whiteness sparkling against the midday blue...whizzing along...a perfect throw really...it was just waiting for the perfect time to float down and be caught for a score!....

BY THE OTHER TEAM!

Well, I wasn't about to let that happen. So, glancing down the field and seeing that the opponent (Ryan) was running to catch the frisbee and had left his defender (I suspect Aaron) behind, I started running toward the frisbee, hoping that I could get to it before Ryan, jump higher than Ryan, have a stronger grip than Ryan––and successfully bring down the Frisbee for MY team, and for an interception.

We reached the point where the frisbee was beginning its descent. We jumped. Our faces were pointed upward, eyes locked on the frisbee, fingertips reaching. It was right there.....

and then,

I was on the ground. Blood dripping from a throbbing lip.

I had landed with my back to most of the other Ultimate Frisbee players. So as they came over, they asked "Are you ok?"

Me: "Yeah, just hit my lip, there's some blood."

Then, as another ultimater (Suzanne) came around to face me, all she said was "Oh... That's bad."

Me: "How bad?" (I've been to enough hospitals in C-Land to last a lifetime.)

Suzanne: "Bad, stitches bad....Hospital Bad"

Me: "Dang it!"

And thus ensued Trip 3 to a hospital in China.

But, this time I had people with me who cared what my face may one day look like without proper attention, so they made sure I went to a nice hospital with foreign trained doctors. I was off to see one especially trained doctor: a plastic surgeon! (when I came away, I even felt like I had gotten Botoxed).

The irony is that i was supposed to be going back into the hospital that weekend to have someone look at my pinky which still woouldn't bend past 90 degrees.
I tried to get the first doctor (the non plastic surgeon doctor) to look at it (my pinky) while they looked at my lip, but he said that I had to go to the Shanghai Number 6 Hospital which apparently specialized in bones, and so he wouldn't look at it. For the rest of the trip (I had to go to another hospital further away to see the Plastic Surgeon) I stopped worrying about trying to "double-dip" with my pinky.

So,
After one amazingly painful anesthetic shot to my upper lip (no lip rings for me!!!)
8 Stitches
1 week with a band-aid that made me look like I had a Charlie Chaplin mustache,
A trip back to the hospital to have the stitches removed....

and my plastic surgeon doctor is leaning over me with tweezers and a miniature scissor-knife, ready to rid my lip of any stitches when he notices that my fingers are "buddy taped" (because I had been playing tennis) and exclaimes:
"What happened to your finger?! ...(I explain) ... Why, I am a hand speciallist also! Yes, a plastic surgeon and a hand specialist! (he was a very happy Chinese man whose smile almost ate his head) We'll have to take a look at that....(starts feeling finger)... Oh! but first the stitches! Yes, first we will take out the stitches THEN we will look at your finger!"(goes back to removing stitches from lip).
Yeah for Hospitals!
Let's hope that I can go an apparent record 2 months without having to return to one again.

Oh! and the most important part of the story:
I stopped Ryan from catching the frisbee :D
Mission Accomplished.




Thursday, July 23, 2009

2,582 Stairs

My most recent adventure was the Great Wall Half-Marathon in Beijing, China. Yes, I went up to Beijing to run in it (for some reason they couldn't bring the wall to us in Shanghai) and yes i had FUN! completing the course in 2:45:00. I'm already planning for next year.... how to get a faster time (start in front, every man for himself). The run started. 4.5 kilometers uphill on a winding paved road (to get up to the level of the wall)..... once your legs were sufficiently jelly-ized, they threw you onto 3.2 km of steep up and down stairs as you tried to enjoy the view while also trying not to fall to your death off the wall. It wasn't until almost 8km into the race that we finally got to run on something approaching a level surface. The race concluded by winding through a local village where Chinese ladies and kids clapped and chanted: clap clap clap Jia You! clap clap clap .... gude times for all except another girl from SMIC who acidentally took the half-marathoner's turn-off and ended up running an extra 3 miles or so above her FULL marathon :( oh well... besides the extra time, i don't think she actually minded the extra distance. I ended up finishing 87th overall (women) and 22nd in my age-group.

Love At First Scoot

I got a scooter! Her name is Sasha.... and I can't believed I've gone 3 years without her! haha. And now that the weather has turned warm, we'll be virtually inseparable. She was born on the first day of spring, being one of two paternal twins..... the other being "Danny Boy". She has since competed in one official LQ 100m drag race, and many other informal races (one with a gas powered scooter,,, but really, that's not a fair match up). Of her many races, she in the undefeated champion (even against her brother Danny Boy, but not against mr. Gas). She likes to sing when she scoots... so sometimes I sing with her so she doesn't feel silly, and recently she has had some feelings of insecurity (that she's an electric scoot scoot and not a gas powered scooter) so I've started making high-speed, engine-reving, gas-powered noises for her wherever we go (to the dismay of my roommate when she rides on the back and has to be seen with us). Scoot scoot has even proven to be a "guy-magnet" as roomie Andrea and I had a car-full of Chinese guys rolll down the window and whistle at us as we were scooting home! haha. I think that's one perk of scoot scoot's that I could pass on.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Tanzania: The Imaginary Picture Girls


The first day I went to help with the Kimberly's House Feeding Program, I took TONS of pictures of the kids. They loved seeing themselves in the camera, and soon I was causing a small riot because they all wanted their picture taken multiple times. The girls all smiled prettily, or shyly, while the boys gathered together throwing up a hand sign, or posing with the spoon of food halfway in their mouth.

The next time I went back, I left my camera at home, figuring I had caused enough of a commotion the last time I was there. As I walked down to the site there were two girls sitting at the first picnic table with bowls of beans and rice waiting patiently in front of them. As soon as they saw me, one of the girls put her hands up holding an imaginary camera and took a picture. I spread my arms out, shrugged my shoulders, and said "I don't have my camera today"... :( sad face. But having come straight from a Kindergarten in China, I knew what to do. I took out my own imaginary camera, held it up to frame the two girls in the picture, paused, and said "CLICK." The girls laughed a bit. I then brought the "camera" over to them to show them their "picture." At this point they threw back their heads in hearty laughter....That was just TOO silly. I took a few more imaginary pictures of them, each time getting a your-funny-taking-pictures-with-an-imaginary-camera laugh. Pretty soon I had to put away my imaginary camera lest it cause a riot as well.


Kimberly's House: Feeding program
Three days a week—every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday— 250+ kids and 50+ adults converge at the Kimberly's House Feeding Site located right next to Joy in the Harvest site 2 (where the Guest Houses and Computer school are located) and overlooking Lake Tanganyika. Anyone who wants to can come and get a meal. Full bowls of rice and beans are handed out, along with drinking water. A local evangelist gives a short talk and leads the kids and adults in prayer. The kids have to wait until EVERYONE has a dish until they can dig in! I was amazed to see the ones who got served first dutifully waiting until the last had received their bowl and they were given the okay to eat—even more amazing since some of them may not have had a good meal since the feeding two days earlier. The kids would be sitting shoulder to shoulder at the long picnic tables. Some of the smaller children sat under the picnic tables facing outward. At first I thought that this was because the tables were too crowded, but then I learned that it was because they were used to protecting any food they got so that it couldn't be stolen and eaten by a bigger, older kid. Many of the children are orphans, losing their parents early to Malaria, Aids, etc, and they learn early to fend for themselves. I went and helped at the Kimberly's House every chance I had.... who can pass up those cute kids?



Sunday, August 31, 2008

The Difference Between China and America

The JinQiao shopping center near where I live has a large cement expanse sweeping in front of it. It even has a nice little ramp area—a haven for burgeoning boarders. In the US, this kind of inadvertent skate-boarding haven would be complete with obvious “No Skating” signs and metal pieces hidden in the concrete just waiting to flatten any boarder who dared to ignore the NO. Security guards would constantly be wagging their finger at “those darn kids” as they did tricks and weaved through the area.

Contrast the JinQiao shopping area and China. No “NO” signs. No metal face-planting rivets. And as I walked through the glass doors of the entrance I passed a lone security guard: relaxed, arm crossed, and grinning as he watched a bunch of ex-pat kids from the near-by international school show of their skate-boarding skills.

Welcome Home

“Helloooooo Howww Aaaare Youuuuu?” My plane from San Francisco had just landed in Shanghai, China. It wasn’t my first time in China, in fact I was returning for a third year of battling 18 million people for a spot on the cement jungle that is Shanghai. After being gone for a month, I’m always a little worried that my Chinese won’t quite do it for the taxi driver, and that I’ll spend 10 minutes saying over and over “Long Dong Da Dao hu Guang Lan Lu!” This time the stress being on DA, and next time stressing the Dong. This time would be different. As soon as I sat down in the cab the driver croons at me four words I’m sure he’s been studying for the past year: “Helloooooo Howww Aaaare Youuuuu?”

Now, since China had been granted to show off it’s international prowess via the 2008 Summer Games, the media had been littered with reports on everything China. I had seen more than one report on how all the taxi drivers in Beijing were learning English for the upcoming Games. However, as far as I knew (or could tell from numerous taxi rides), Shanghai taxi drivers were far from being required to do the same. So, needless to say, I was surprised. I had snagged a super-excited-for-the-olympics-English-practicing Taxi driver. I did my best Chinese version of my address, and off we went, the radio babbling on and on about the Olympic games (which was one of the handful of phrases I could pull out of the jumble of Chinese words). For the rest of the ride he practiced his English. “Zhouguai—LEFT!” he would exclaim. “YoGuai—RIGHT!” “YiQiZhou—Keeep Going!” I sat in semi-confusion as I kept worrying that he had stopped practicing and had started actually asking if this is where he is suppose to Left, Right or YiQiZhou.

In the end I made it the the front steps of my apartment complex. He helped me unload my “Four bag” “heavy,” and then drove off into the Shanghai night happy that the LaoWei had understood his English.

Friday, May 09, 2008

New Friends


Not more than a block from our school/living quarters, is one of the coolest local streets in our Pudong, Shanghai area. Coming from an apartment area, and a school, that is sometimes a bit too full of westerners for living in China, this street is a breath of "fresh" air. It is lined with the types of little shops seen all over China. The ones that sell a conglomeration of different items ranging from household plumbing, to house slippers, to cell phone recharge cards, to pots and pans, to fake dvds. All of this is crowded into a space not much bigger than most people's front rooms, which is lined floor to ceiling with shelves. The pots sit next to the house slippers, the batteries site next to shower heads, and all of it looks as if, at the smallest movement, it would all some tumbling down creating a more jumbled mess than it already is. Intermingled with these catch-all shops are fruit and vegetables shops that lead back into wet markets selling grown goods along side unrefrigerated pigs legs, live fish, frogs, etc; hair salons, quicky marts (think 7-11), and small eateries.

At night this road becomes alive as meat-on-a-stick (the name says it all) sellers park their bikes along the side of the already narrow street, unfolding from the back a magically packed coal grill, complete with sticks, meat, and veggies for grilling. As the housing here generally has very small rooms, at night, after work, people migrate outdoors to relax, and hang out with friends. Fried noodle vendors and hot pot sellers park their wagons beside the meat-on-a-stick sellers, and before you know it, it's like a small street fair.

There are two small restaurants along this road that I particularly enjoy. One is the dumpling place (they sell dumplings), and the other is the Muslim Noodle place (they sell Muslim style noodle dishes). We name all the restaurants here by what kind of food they have, as we usually don't know their Chinese names.

The other day, two of the other Kindergarten teachers: Terry and Buffy, their friend who was visiting from Canada: Owen, and I, headed over to the Muslim Noodle place for lunch. It was a beautiful day, and eating at the Muslim Noodle place was a perfect chance to enjoy some cheap food (a full plate of noodles for about a dollar) and the great weather.

After snagging an available table outside, Buffy, Owen and I headed next next door to the convenience store to buy some drinks. When we came out, we found that Terry was now sitting at the table stationed beside ours (but belonging to the restaurant next door) with 3 other Chinese people. As we came over, one of the men motioned for us to pull up chairs, telling us (in Chinese) to join them, while at the same time waving down the waitress to order more food. When we protested saying that we had already ordered a full meal from the restaurant next door he waved off our words saying (again in Chinese) that it was okay, we could share, and that they had Hen hao chur --Very good food.

Buffy and Terry (whose Chinese is much better than mine) proceeded to have a good chat with the 3 Chinese people there. We found out who had kids, how old they were, where they lived, etc. These 3 strangers willingly shared all the food at their table with us, while talking cheerfully about the limited subjects we could. We talked about how China has so many beautiful places to see, and found out various places they had been traveling. Meanwhile, this whole episode also made me realize how dismal my Chinese was, and motivated me (again) to work harder at getting to a conversational level that was above "I am a teacher," "I'm from America," "It's nice to meet you."

Most of all, I was amazed at the kindness of strangers, and the willingness of these people to invite us into their lives, even if it was just for lunch. At one point in the conversation, more than halfway through the meal, Owen turned to me and said "Wait, so you guys don't know these people?" Nope, we didn't. And, not only did they share their food, and pay for the lunches we had already ordered from the other restaurant; but more so they shared a meal as if we were old friends. :)

Thursday, February 08, 2007

Gopher anyone? Nong Khiaw to Luang Prabang

After returning from a relaxing night spent in bungalows that overlooked the beautiful river Nam Ou, and mountain surroundings of Muang Ngoi Neua, we returned to NongKhiaw, with the hope of catching an open air truckxi (truck-taxi) to Luang Prabang. As we hiked up from the river, we saw two truckxi's awaiting passengers. One was stuffed full with people lining both bench seats, and people sitting in the middle. The top was laden with backpacking bags, and it looked set to go. The other, stood empty, save 3 Israeli's who were sitting near the opening. Guess which one we decided to join. We threw our bags up top, and jumped into the bed settling ourselves into our bench seats. Slowly more people came, okay.. filling up. Oh wait, now they are pushing large sacks of........seed? gumbo? penuts? into the back of the truck bed–we slide them under the bench seats. Okay...more people? G_ERROR_13">Hmmmm i don't know where they're going to sit, Oh.. okay .. right there, in that 1.5" of space that was peaking it's little head out between two sets of legs. In the extended cab, 4 locals had already folded themselves up and packed themselves in, the two French girls had the front seats, and we had 3 more locals who were scooting their way in to sit in the meager aisle space that ran down the center. Finally, we were all loaded and ready to depart: people were sardined in, packs were loaded–and even tied down!, and we had more people that I had ever seen fit in one of these trucks–24! The truck's engine roars to life... we slowly take off up the dirt hill. Slowly, we pull our way to the top, turn the corner, and...park! It is currently 10:30 a.m. We are told that the other truckxi (which looks just as sardined as ours) needs 5 more people to be full, and that our truckxi will not be leaving until 3 p.m. Well lets just say that there was lots of unloading and loading, bargaining, yelling, bargaining, unloading, loading, and finally our truckxi was on it's way, with occupancy numbers reduced to around 18, sometime around 11:40.

So here we are, cruising down this windy road at quite a pace, with a Laotian boy who looks to be about 13 behind the wheel. We pass through Dai communities where all their houses are up on stilts, beautiful scenic overlooks of rolling green hills covered in a tropical array of foliage, wave hello to the children as we drive by, and suddenly come to a very complete stop and begin to back up. We roll back to a group of boys (who look to be between 7 and 12) who are standing on the side of the road, and one is holding a gopher up in his hand. There is a quick exchange of 40,000 kip, and we are on our way, now with a gaping gopher staring through the back window of the truck at us. He didn't look all too happy to be the newest member of our Southward trek, and he was non to shy about showing us his mouth full of little, white, shiny, teeth. Through a bit of clever charades, we discover that the gopher will be a tasty treat later in the day. For 40,000 kip, that little guy must have been one tasty morsel!

Wednesday, February 07, 2007

Na Toei, Northern Laos



Our first morning in Laos. I awoke in my bed to the sound of someone loudly hawking a loogey--"I thought I was away from this," was my first thought, as Laos had already proved to be much cleaner than China, and we had only barely snuck into the northern part of it. It was almost 7:30 before I was able to pry myself out of bed into the chilly morning air. Although my room was dark, I could see light pushing itself in through the wooden window shutters, and, at various spots where the wall met the roof. I realized that our Natoei Guest House owners must have turned out the electricity to the whole building last night sometime after I fell asleep. Around this area, they seem to only even turn the power on around sun-down. During this time, all the lights in the house remain on--no matter what (people using a room, not using a room, etc), and after this time, you can't turn a light on even if you want to. (I haven't decided if this is better for energy than if one were to only use the light one needs when one needs it.) The night before I had gone to sleep with my bedroom light on, as even standing on the bed, I couldn't jump high enough to reach the toggle switch on the bare light bulb that hung from the center of my ceiling, and have enough "hang time" to actually toggle it, before ripping the whole contraption down from the ceiling.

Now, that it's morning, the town is coming alive. Vehicles (which seem much nicer than one would expect to see (Toyota 4x4s, cruisers, etc) roar to life. I hear the cock-a-doodle do of roosters (and wonder what roosters say in Dai, the Lao language), and kids that look to be about middle/high school age are walking by in groups of 4-5. The girls all have on a mid-calf length grey skirt which has a white stripe across the bottom--the Laotian Sarong style. I hope that they are all headed to school.

Most the houses have stoked up fires out on the front veranda, and the mothers, and young children have begun to gather in a squat around them to help warm off the morning chill.

As we stayed in a guest Hotel on the main street–well let me clarify, the town is made up of 2 main streets, one that goes to Luang Nam Tha (east) and the road that continues down to Luang Prabang (in the center of N. Laos, but South of here)–so this town is located right in the fork in the road. Anyhow, as this is a "main" road–concrete being slowly invaded by the prominent red-clay–a motorcycle, car, or tractor-truck frequently pass.

Today we will try to catch a bus toward Luang Prabang; but, as we don't speak dai, and we haven't necessarily found a "bus station," this may involve hanging out in front of our Hotel, at the ready to flag one down as it drives by, and hope that it has space for 5 people aboard.

Our trip thus far has included:
•Plane from Shanghai, China to Kunming, China [feb 3]

•Kunming - stayed the night in a hostel. Awoke the next morning to catch a "8-9 hour" (it was actually 12.5) bus to Jinghong. [feb 4] Since we were taking a bus during the daytime, we assumed that we would have normal, upright, bus seats. Ones big enough for Chris and Dan's unussually lengthed legs as we pointed out to the ticket how long they really were. :) So we show up to the bus station in the morning, to get taken to our bus and find that we have a sleeper bus! Hmmmmmmm...... the beds look kinda... short--to say the least. The guy is very excited that there are exactly 5 of us... he has JUST the place for us. Stretching across the back of the bus in all it's splendor is where we will spend the next 12.5 hours.... all in a row like sardines. You can't tell, but there's actually one more "seat" to the right of Chris, which is where I spent the journey gazing out the window as the scenery changed from Kunming to closertoLaos, and generally trying to ignore the guys' excited comments about stripping down to their boxers, playing dance music through a boom box, and making it a partay in the back. HA.






























•Jinghong : Stayed the night at College Hostel.
•Jinghong to Mengla : 5 hour bus [feb 5]

















•Mengla: looked for a place that could take and print passport sized photos for us to use at the China/Loas boarder. Found a place that took photos. The photographer dressed Dan up in a pretty blue blazer, and helped me to fix my hair and symmetricize my collar–I don't think he understood that we just needed them for our Laos visas, and am rather afraid that if I return to the booth later, we'll be some of the "whiteys" that appear on his display board as a show of his photographic talents.



•Mengla to Boten (China/Laos boarder) : 1.5 hour bus. Most of the way was on a nicely paved, but windy road–except for when the driver decided to take the, still dirt, in-the-process-of-being-constructed, new highway. We slowly lost 1, 3, 4 people at small towns along the way, until it was just us whiteys continuing on to the Laos boarder.

•Boton, Laos : arrive to get our Laos visas. Played wicki ball with a couple of locals for a short time, then caught a taxi-van-open air truck type vehicle down to Na Toei.

•Na Toei, Laos : Already noticeable cleaner than the Southeastern China cities and towns we just left. I think I feel okay about walking around with my sandals and no socks on here. We found a Guest Hotel to stay at: front veranda area with tiled table and benches (reminds me of the good-ole days when people would sit out front and say "howdy" to their neighbors as they walked by), clean rooms with cement floors. House bathroom: squatty and shower in one.... sink outside. You have to flush the squatty by pouring water from a basin down the squatty hole.. and of course.. any toilet paper goes in the waste basket.

Things keep striking me about this place: the openess of the houses–most houses have an open front area which acts as a small store, a restaurant, a Guest House; the friendliness of the people–neighbors go from house to house visiting and helping each other; the fact that every house has a TV and a satellite, and our Guest House owners' phone keeps ringing; you get cell reception out here, and most people seem to have cell phones. In the veranda next to me, a lady is getting a pedicure.